People in your life（你生活中的人们） 立即阅读
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study.
However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hardnames.It is not so bad as you suppose.It looks poorest when you are richest.The fault-finder will find faults in paradise.Love your life,poor as it is.You may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a poor-house.The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man's abode;the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.
抗战时我初到重庆，暂时下榻于上清寺一位朋友家。晚饭时，主人以一大钵排骨萝卜汤飨客，主人谦逊的说：“这汤不够味。我的朋友杨太太做的排骨萝卜汤才是一绝，我们无论如何也仿效不来，你去一尝便知。”杨太太也是我的熟人，过几天她邀我们几个熟人到她家去餐叙。席上果然有一大钵排骨萝卜汤。揭开瓦钵盖，热气冒三尺。每人舀了一小碗。喔，真好吃。排骨酥烂而未成渣，萝卜煮透而未变泥，汤呢？热、浓、香、稠，大家都...
Live in the present moment（生活在此时此刻） 立即阅读
To a large degree，the measure of our peace of mind is determined by how much we are able to live in the present moment．Irrespective of what happened yesterday or last year，and what may or may not happen tomorrow，the present moment is where you are －－always it is．Without question，many of us have mastered the neurotic art of spending much of our lives worrying about a variety of things －－all at once．
当我还是一个青年大学生的时候，报刊上曾刮起一阵讨论人生的意义与价值的微风，文章写了一些，议论也发表了一通。我看过一些文章，但自己并没有参加进去。原因是，有的文章不知所云，我看不懂。更重要的是，我认为这种讨论本身就无意义，无价值，不如实实在在地干几件事好。时光流逝，一转眼，自己已经到了望九之年，活得远远超过了我的预算。有人认为长寿是福，我看也不尽然。人活得太久了，对人生的种种相，众生...
A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things were so hard for her, She did not know she was going to make it and want to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose. Her father, a cook, took her to the kitchen, He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.
每个人都争取一个完满的人生。然而，自古及今，海内海外，一个百分之百完满的人生是没有的。所以我说，不完满才是人生。关于这一点，古今的民间谚语，文人诗句，说到的很多很多。最常见的比如苏东坡的词：“人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺，此事古难全。”南宋方岳（根据吴小如先生考证）诗句：“不如意事常八九，可与人言无二三。”这都是我们时常引用的，脍炙人口的。类似的例子还能够举出成百上千来。这种说法适用于...
人生是条无名的河，是深是浅都要过。人生是杯无色的茶，是苦是甜都要喝。人生是首无畏的歌，是高是低都要喝。愿大家能轻松地对待自己，微笑着对待生活！还要学会一点人生的哲学，别人的缺点不要去宣扬和放大，自己的优点不要天天去欣赏和欢呼。人生有三苦：你得不到，所以你痛苦；得到了，却不过如此，所以你觉得痛苦；最后你轻易地放弃了，后来却发现，原来它在你生命中是那么重要，所以你觉得痛苦。
Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling five balls in the air. You name them: work, family, health, friends, and spirit, and you're keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls--family, health, friends, and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged, or even shattered.